She was perfect. It was just your first date, but you know it. You want to pursue this further, but you don't know how she feels. How can you make sure that she asks for another date ... and another ... and the next ... until she can't keep her hands off from you?

First of all, I'll let you know THREE things I believe:

* Most guys who are in long-term relationships are settling due to their previous lack of successes with relationships and their lack of knowledge about how to keep a women.

* When you begin to understand women more, you will realize that most women are NOT the type of woman you would want to have a long-term relationship with. There are not many 10/10's out there.

* If you eventually do meet and attract a great woman that you really, really like, it is essential that you handle the situation RIGHTif you want to keep her.

How do you know if she's worth the effort? If you actually worry about things like how long you should wait to call, whether you should send a text or email or pick up that phone, then you probably like her enough to want to see if this becomes a relationship.

Once you've sussed out your gut feeling and decided to go for it, the first thing you need to know is what a woman expects you to do next. You should know:

* If she is an attractive woman, then you are probably not the first man to have shown an interest. She probably has a lot of experience with men wanting to start a relationship.

* If she is hot, you can expect that:

- She has been approached by men a lot!

- Most men that she dates end up following her around like a puppy dog.

- She sees a guy who is overly nice as "needy" and is turned off.

Believe it or not ... beautiful women are more attracted by men who pull them in, then push them away just a bit, than by men who try to reel them in with all the romantic gestures they can think of.

It all comes down to one simple question: How do you get someone to want something?

Take a minute to think about why people want things in the first place. Can you make someone want something that they didn't want before? What are the things that you want, and why do you want them? Ask yourself why nightclubs have lines of people on the street waiting to get in, even when the nightclub has plenty of space inside. Why do so many people purchase shirts that are brand name, like Nike or Calvin Klein, when they can get the same shirt without the brand name for less money?

What did you notice about those examples? I think that it is obvious that:

* Most people want things for non-logical reasons.

* People want what they don't have and can't have. They also get bored fast when they get what they want.

* Knowing that something is available easily makes us lose interest.

Stop for a moment and think about this. Are you easily available? Does she have any reason to want you?

The Keys to Keep a Woman Wanting You

* Become a challenge.

* Give her a little, then lean back.

* Give her the gift of missing you.

* Be unpredictable.

When you become a challenge, you gain the attention of a woman's thoughts and feelings. Women are NOT attracted to pushovers! They are attracted to men who are a challenge, who are elusive, who give them the opportunity to wonder about what the man behind the image is like. When you learn to master the "give a little, then lean back" tactic, you will create in the woman's mind a sense of wanting more. That's right ... wanting more of you! The fastest way to become uninteresting and boring is to keep giving the new woman in your life loads and load of attention and conceding to everything she wants. Take some time out; spend a few days doing your own thing. Let her think about you while you're apart. When you get a woman to miss you, you create a powerful effect.

The Rules of Attraction

A MAJOR MISTAKE THAT MEN MAKE is feeling insecure. They think that they must call and keep in touch with a woman at all times. Don't do the same thing! Men that are unpredictable do something that is almost MAGIC. Think about the great women-magnets of the big screen, like the character of James Bond or Indiana Jones. What woman wouldn't want to be with someone who appears one way on the outside, yet hides the rugged spontaneity of an adventurer beneath? These guys are never insecure! That's because they lead an exciting life, and women have to grab hard if they want to hang on for the ride.

Let me put it simply: when a man understands how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION, then he doesn't do things that are PREDICTABLE and women will tend to think about him ALL THE TIME.

Things that are predictable don't require much thought. They're uninteresting and boring.

You're going to have to work at this. Being unpredictable, spontaenous, and interesting will take some thought. You'll have to break old habits and take new risks. If you do, you'll discover that women will be FASCINATED and INTRIGUED by you. Think about it. What makes a bad movie? Predictability. What makes a great movie? You have no clue what happens next, and the drama keeps you on the edge of your seat. Predictability and BORING-NESS go hand-in-hand with TURNING A WOMAN OFF and are the opposite of attraction.

Here are a few tips:

If you decide to call a woman the next day, be cool, but not too slick. Don't try to set up another date immediately. Call just to say "Hi, how's it going?" Have a short chat, then end the call before either of you can start feeling your attention wander. Sit back, relax, and be assured that for the next few days she'll be thinking of you!

1. If you decide to email, keep it short and upbeat.

2. Never complain, be in a bad mood, or act like you need attention. Keep things cool, calm and upbeat.

3. Let her miss you. This is very important. Think of it as a gift you are giving a woman! You are giving her the gift of excitement, which is what all women want in a man.

4. Don't see a woman more than twice a week for the first month.

Don't focus too much energy on the relationship until you decide that you definitely want it to last long term. Don't stop dating other women until you two are officially going out. When you focus too much time and energy on a woman you have just met, it may creep her out and make her run, even if you hit it off like a bang at the outset.

By the way, if you're reading this right now, and you'd like to get a POWERFUL education on the topics of women, dating, and ATTRACTION, then I recommend that you check out my e-book, "How to be Irresistible to Women." You can download it from the link below.

Best regards,

Matthew Whiting

Author : "How to Be Irresistibly Attractive"

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About the author:

Matthew Whiting is a professional writer specializing in dating and relationship advice. He has extensive experience in training men to maximize their seduction potential and ability to interact with women successfully. He is considered by many to be an expert in his field with his frank and forthright approach. He is best known for his work in "How to Be Irresistible to Women," which is part of the 000Relationships network.

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