Sharing Your Husband with a Friend

in a Threesome

Mel Poretz's mentions in his survey book "What Would You Do?" that fifteen percent of the surveyed women admitted they fantasized about sex with their best friends' husbands. Consider this: if a striking one in seven women admits to fantasize doing it with their best friend's man, imagine the number of women who could cross the line for a threesome with their best friend's permission, participation and encouragement! When there is already a friendship relation established it can improve your chances for a threesome.

Valid Concerns about Involving Close Girlfriends

Many women are afraid of doing it with a friend as they’re scared that it might damage the relationship with her. Another concern why women don’t want to involve their personal friends is because they’re afraid that the sexual encounter might evolve and become a relationship. The reason this fear exists is because women have been strongly conditioned to believe that sex and love need to be together. You know now that recreational sex can happen and can be very fulfilling! 
 
I’m not disclosing this argument and saying that under no circumstances the friendship will be affected. Many of your concerns are probably present in your mind because you’re still holding an old paradigm. I suggest you ask yourself new questions and explore your feelings with your partner first and then little by little do the same with your friend.
 

Will My Friend Steal Away My Man?

Some women are afraid that their friend might want to steal away their husband. This is an interesting issue, if you’re worried that your best friend might take away your man I suggest you look for another best friend, or work on your self-esteem and the relationship with your man. Obviously your relationship isn’t as strong as it should be. When participating in a threesome with your partner, you must already be in a loving and committed relationship otherwise it won’t work. 
 
If you’re confident about yourself and your relationship you’ll establish a bond between the two of you that is sealed with confidence and trust. A threesome is an opportunity to get you closer to your steady partner; not more separate. So if this is the issue that’s making you afraid of involving a friend, I suggest that you reconsider in participating in a threesome altogether.

Friends with Concessions

Do you remember in high school the term 'friend with concessions'. Why not have many friends with concessions. Why limit yourself to have one girlfriend. If you open your mind the possibilities are endless, Please do not think I'm saying that you should try to hit the sack with every single friend you have. Of course not. While you develop and open your mind to new possibilities, you'll meet new friends. The great thing about being open to new experiences is that you'll have the chance to meet many beautiful women with whom you can develop a "Friendship with concessions". 

Conclusion

Friends make the great lovers because there is already an established bond, which is ready to be expanded. Friends could be the starting point for new adventures. However I trust you have enough common sense to realize that when your friends are not responding you won’t push them and risk your buddy relationship with them.

Suzy Bauer

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