Personal Concerns about a Threesome Sex

Will my husband think I am a “slut” after having threesome?

Darling, I can understand your concern… The reason why you’re asking   yourself this question is because you’ve been conditioned to think that what you desire is wrong. Interesting enough, I’ve been involved in the swinging community for a while and my experience is that most women find swinging to be a welcome dose of sanity. 
 
Our culture can be quite cruel to women who have an active interest in sex, often derisively labeling them "sluts" - a term which stands in sharp contrast to the less derogatory term for men, "studs." Most couples end up learning quite a bit about themselves and their sexuality through a threesome. 
 
A threesome can be an opportunity to learn to relax and appreciate sexual pleasure, and it may help one to view sex more as a source of pleasure and giving. So my answer to this question is NO, I don’t think your husband will  think you’re a “slut” after being in a threesome. Nevertheless talk to him and share your concerns beforehand.

I am a single woman and I fantasize about being with a couple. Shall I do that?

I think that you are amongst the privileged few that understand all the fantastic opportunities you have by being a single woman. I’m sure that after reading my book "Step by Step Threesome", you would get many ideas of how to find couples. Single bisexual women are a dime a dozen, so you have the ability to seduce really good looking couples. If you dare, why not go to a swingers club and have a night of lust and passion? The great thing about swingers clubs is that females rule, so you shouldn’t be afraid of anything. Enjoy!

How can I learn to share intimacy without falling in love?

Good question. The answer is: with practice, and being open minded you can learn to share intimacy without falling in love. Mature individuals can develop  an intimacy based on warmth and mutual respect, much freer than the desperation, neediness or the blind craziness of falling in love. The moment  that you understand this, sexual friendships can become not only possible but also preferred. While most people worry about; if having a threesome with their best friend damages their relationship, sexually mature individuals will work on ways to take their relationship into a new level. They will cultivate friendships that are non sexual, but they will also cultivate friendships where escapades can happen. In other words they’ll start to grow “fuck buddies.”  Each relationship will find its own level, or if you will let it, any relationship  can flow together to a way that fits you all.

Suzy Bauer

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