Obsticles for Having a Threesome

Social Conditioning and Hypocrisy

Because of the way we’ve been conditioned by society, religion and obsolete traditions, it’s not uncommon to see eyebrows rise when the subject of sex is raised. We’ve been conditioned and indoctrinated to think in one way or another, according to tradition and ancient beliefs. Certainly a threesome lies outside society's sanctioned borders; therefore, biology, psychology, society and religion all fly in formation to spoil your quest for the ultimate sexual experience.
 
As a hedonist, I’m sometimes bewildered by how hypocrite and twisted society is. I remember as a youngster in the early eighties, going to the cinema to see the film The Blue Lagoon. As I wasn’t yet sixteen, I wasn’t allowed to go in. However years earlier, being only twelve, I was allowed with a couple of friends to watch The Deer Hunter, which together with Full Metal Jacket and Born the 4th of July are three of the most violent movies I’ve ever watched. 
 
I don’t know about you, but I’d rather have my children watch The Blue Lagoon where they learn about love, romance and see a bit of nudity, than a movie with lot’s of gore and explicit footage. What message are we giving to our children? It seems that in today’s society it’s perfectly okay for children to grow up watching violence, murders and massacres; however nudity and people making love are “dirty” things to watch…

Fear of STD’s & AIDS

To top it all off, we live in a world where the threat of STD’s (Sexually Transmitted Diseases) is on the mind of almost everyone; specifically the fear of AIDS.  I don’t want to go further into this topic but remember that as a good rule of thumb we can pay attention to what a wise man once said; “Fear only springs of ignorance.” However, this doesn’t mean that you should not be careful.
 
Exercise good judgment and use your brain to make sure you have safe sex. Apart from AIDS there are around 20 different diseases that can be transmitted sexually. The good thing is that all STDs can be prevented, and many STD’s can be cured by accurate diagnosis and early effective treatment, however if you don’t know what they are, how they can affect you, and how you can prevent them you are indeed at risk.
 
Unfortunately society has associated STD’s with guilt, shame and sin. Infected people often avoid seeking treatment because of social or parental disapproval. “Nice people especially nice girls are not supposed to get STDs”; they say. Unfortunately they do get it, and usually from nice guys. Anyone who is sexually active or likely to become sexually active should have a good understanding of STD’s. It’s the only way to a healthier sexual life. 
 
I suggest that if you want to join a new "flock" of individuals who've already expanded their sex lives to new heights, you need to become a responsible individual and learn about STD’s or venereal diseases as they're also called.

The “R” Factor

Before I move on, I need to deal with the last obstacle in order for you to make your threesome a reality and that is something I call the big “R”. In other words: Religion….
 
In many cases, consciously or subconsciously this obstacle tends to be a big “but” in people’s minds before venturing in a threesome!
 
According to many religions, the only valid reason for sex is to procreate! Just imagine what really religious people will say if they would even suspect that you are planning a threesome...
 
You’d probably be accused of having no morals, being corrupt or having no shame. Remember; "Fuck the flock"! Please understand that these people have a specific model of the world, determined by the beliefs that were indoctrinated in them since they were little. 
 
A threesome is far beyond their boundaries; however there’s no reason for you to disclose your sexual desires with anyone right? Perhaps you were raised with a strict religious upbringing and you’re debating in your own thoughts if this “sin” can be erased by penitence.
 
Believe me; you’re not doing anything wrong! If you would have been brought up in an environment where nudity and polyamory was the norm, you’d not be even debating the issue. The fact is you weren’t, however this doesn’t mean it’s wrong! 
 
I remember once seeing a bumper sticker that read: Nothing is true, everything is allowed! Honestly, I believe this philosophy more than the bullshit philosophy of nothing is allowed. I believe very strongly that as long as you don’t hurt anyone else, you should be able to enjoy life at its fullest. 
 
It’s not that I’m against religion; however I have a tendency to question its purpose. So once and for all, if you have any fear of “wrong doing” or “what people would think if they’d find out,” now is the right time to let go, because it’ll just be an obstacle in your quest to fulfill your ultimate fantasy.
 
Many people know that my husband and I have fulfilled our fantasy and obviously after writing my "Step by Step Threesome" guide more and more people will know about it. Remember, the fantasy of a threesome is shared amongst a vast amount of the population, so people look at us in a brighter light of respect and positive envy because my husband and I have accomplished to pull off many threesomes during our time as a couple. So, once again we both encourage you to let go of that fear!

Suzy Bauer

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